If she doesn't give it to you, then she also knew why you asked. If you ask every time, and you do it in a smooth, assuming, calm way, you'll get a lot of emails and phone numbers. I prefer the Fisher Space Pen (chrome) because it's small, classy, and women love it!
I found out later, after working like a mad scientist on this that .
You see, women have many different reasons for giving out their phone numbers. But the universal feedback that I get from men, and in my personal experience, When you call a woman for the first time, she'll often start acting stand offish or even worse, just plain rude.
If she says "yes," I take out a pen and paper and say "Great, write it down for me" and I have her write it down.
(This is great, as I just treat the 'yes' that they give me as a yes to get it from them as well.
Some love the attention of having a lot of men call them. It's almost like she's a different person than the one you met.
I've found that getting an EMAIL address is not only easier, but it gets more positive responses later on.She's already mentally said "OK, I'll give you my email address"... When you say "And just write your number down there too" it's only NATURAL to just write it.In other words, it's a MUCH smaller step than giving out the phone number all by itself.Now that you know the sequence, write it down with the words and the steps, and rehearse it in your mind over and over until you know exactly what to say for each step and each response.Many guys have asked me "But what do I tell her as a reason why I want her number or email? If you ask, and they give it, then she knows why you asked.Our dirty girls are ready live and waiting to talk about your most perverted fantasy.