Living with someone can impact the level of support ordered Another point that you should think about if you are considering living with your boyfriend is that it will affect the level of support you may eventually receive.Even if you ultimately get custody of your children, child support levels may be lowered because you are living with someone and sharing the expenses.
You will most likely have ongoing contact with your husband after the divorce because of the children.
Dating during divorce can poison the spirit of cooperation and affect your life for a long time after the divorce is final (and possibly after your boyfriend is history).
You need time to discover that you can make it on your own without a man to support you emotionally or financially. When you are going through a divorce, you're usually not in a mental state to make permanent choices.
Studies have shown that the first relationship that a person enters into after a divorce has little chance of long-term survival and will rarely end in marriage.
Strategic reasons not to date before divorce Emotions are raw during a divorce.
When you start seeing someone else, it is like rubbing salt into your husband's wounds.
Not only will both you and your husband's conduct be scrutinized during a custody case, but also so will be the conduct of your boyfriend.
If he has a shady background, it will be used against you.
He may try to even the score by fighting about custody of the children or how to split the marital estate.
If you have children, then you also need to realize that it's in your best interest to try to keep a cordial relationship with your husband.
Emotional reasons not to date during divorce When you are separated or going through a divorce, the attention that a boyfriend shows you can feel like a breath of fresh air and boost your self-esteem.