When you feel like you're not as good as other guys are with women, it hits you right in the middle of who you are as a man.
You see, she starts out needing to find a reason to be interested and trust YOU - or she quickly categorizes you as a friend.
If you just start talking to her neutrally, she's wondering, "Is he safe? " For all she knows, you're just another dweeb looking to bore her with old Playboy party jokes.
And if I did get a date, it always ended up as "friends" at the end, because I was such a "Nice Guy." But I'd also look at my guy friends who had cool girlfriends and think, "He's not all that great looking, or all that smart." So How In The World Were These Other Guys I asked myself that over and over again.
I started to get really frustrated, and then I even got angry with women over it.
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Well, I can tell you from years of experience that you're not alone, and you're not as lost as you might feel.I felt myself blaming them for my situation, even though I knew they weren't the problem.It was very tempting to give up and just write women off completely. If there were things other guys were doing that could get women interested in them, I could figure out what that was, and then learn it and use it myself. The truth is that once you do figure out the method they're using (and I eventually did), it's simple.Most users ever online is 12584 on August 28, 2011 am CEST.Join Black Cupid today and become a part of the most exciting black dating and black chat network in the USA.I was meeting the occasional girl, but I wasn't able to get anything off the ground.