Improving the marriage The discovery of your husband’s online world is a crisis in your marriage but it can also represent an opportunity.
And if he really loves you, then a few years down the line he will come knocking.
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Of course your husband should not blame you and he must take responsibility for how he has hurt you with his online behaviour, but the two of you must take responsibility for improving the marriage.
Though it may be painful, the fact that you have started talking about issues is a good sign.
Real intimacy is created in everyday communication, in the nitty-gritty of sharing a life together and in the hard work of resolving conflicts and accepting the other person as different to you.
Over the course of my dating life, I’ve learned an important lesson about love – something that pertains to young women who have just begun dating, as well as more experienced women who know all about love….Up until this, I thought things were okay in our marriage, though of course we haven’t had much couple time with the demands of four children but this discovery has come as a bolt out of the blue.It wouldn’t have been as bad if he was just accessing porn, as I know men do this, but the fact that he was talking to other people has really disgusted me.My husband is a great father and has always been very hands-on with the children who really love him and I don’t want to end up separated.AWith people spending more and more time online, accessing pornography and adult websites can be a big problem in modern marriages.A second issue for a marriage is that one partner turns to the internet for flirting and sexual excitement rather than to their partner.